Topic: Isolation as a child
When I was younger I had a friend whose parents wouldn’t allow her to socialize with other people. We were friends because we lived across the street from her and her mom was my mom’s friend. But her parent’s homeschooled her and she weren’t allowed to join and clubs or sports of any kind. I believe that this is an example of isolation. I was her only friend other than family members. As an adult, twenty years later, she hasn’t been able to successfully adjust to society. She hasn’t been able to keep a job for longer than two years. And she isn’t able to maintain relationships romantic of friendships. I believe she has these difficulties because she wasn’t properly socialized as a child. She was kept in isolation for a large part of her growing up life.
That experience was extremely detrimental to her developmental process. She has been to counseling and has tried to join various groups to help her social awkwardness.
She has improved with time, but it has taken a lot of work and stress on her part. We are still friends and keep in contact with one another on a weekly basis. I have been able to witness her progress as she continues to grow more confidence in herself. I hope that one day she will be able to function as a normal person in society without experiencing anxiety.